No, it is not necessarily oppressive parenting to require early teenage children to cook the occasional family meal and does other household tasks such as vacuuming and ironing. Many parents believe that assigning household responsibilities to their children is an important part of teaching them important life skills and fostering a sense of responsibility and independence.
However, it is important to consider the age and maturity level of the child when assigning household tasks. While early teenage children are certainly capable of handling basic household chores, they may not yet have the skills or experience to take on more complex tasks or to handle certain responsibilities, such as caring for younger siblings, without adult supervision.
It is also important to ensure that the expectations for household chores are reasonable and fair and that they do not interfere with the child’s ability to meet other important responsibilities, such as schoolwork or extracurricular activities.
In general, involving children in household tasks can be a positive and empowering experience for both the child and the family as a whole, as long as it is done in a way that is age-appropriate, fair, and supportive of the child’s overall well-being.