Having a good sense of humor is a big help. I think that’s the most important thing. You have to be able to laugh at yourself and other people. If you can’t, you’re not going to get very far in life. And if you don’t laugh, then you won’t have any friends. So, I try to keep my humor to myself, but I’m not afraid to let it out when I feel like it. That’s one of the things that I’ve learned over the years, is that if I can get a laugh out of someone, they’re more likely to want to hang out with me. It’s just a matter of knowing when to do it and when not to.
What do you think is the biggest mistake people make when it comes to getting to know someone new? How can they avoid making the same mistake as you did when you first met them? What’s your advice for people who are just starting in the dating world, or just trying to figure out who they are and where they fit in with the rest of their friends and the people they know in their social circles? I know you’ve been dating for a while now, so I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.
… I would say that there are a lot of things people can do to avoid the mistakes I made. One of them is to not be afraid of making a first impression. When you meet someone for the first time, there’s a certain amount of nervousness that goes along with that. But once you know them a little bit better, it doesn’t seem like that much of a big deal. The biggest thing is just to just be yourself. Don’t worry about what people think of you or what they think about you. Just go out there and do what you do best, which is to make people feel comfortable around you and make them feel good about themselves. There’s nothing wrong with being shy or awkward or whatever. The more comfortable you are with yourself the better you’ll be at making people comfortable with you because that will make you feel better about yourself as a person as well. Also, just being yourself is a great way to show people that you care about them and want them to like you as much as they do. Being yourself also makes it easier for you to connect with people in a way that they can relate to, as opposed to people being like, “Oh, he’s so weird and weird.” That just makes you look like a weirdo and not a real person. Another thing that can be a huge mistake is not being willing to learn from your mistakes. Sometimes you make a mistake and you just keep on doing it because you haven’t learned from it yet. This is something I learned early on in my dating life, where I didn’t learn anything from my first date with this girl. She was nice to me and I liked her and we ended up having a really good time. Then, a few months later, she broke up with her boyfriend and that was the last time I saw her. At that point, I had no idea what I was doing wrong and it took me a couple of months to realize that it was because I wasn’t learning from the experience. Once I did that, things started to work out well for me, even though I still made a ton of mistakes along the way. As long as I keep learning and trying new things and being open to new experiences and new people, eventually, I’ll get to the point where everything will just click and things will start working out for both of us.